Sunday, 27 March 2016

TCHC giving domestic violence victim the runaround

Connie Harrison is a tenant of Toronto Community Housing who is seeking new accommodation so she can avoid living with the man who is currently serving a sentence for domestic violence against her. He gets out of jail in less than a month but TCHC have been dragging her feet and suggesting she should go to a shelter instead.

Please email Mayor John Tory at mayor_tory@toronto.ca and ask him to tell TCHC that it's their responsibility to protect victims of violence rather than throw them on to the streets.

The message below, by Connie's son, is posted here with permission.


Daniel Murton

25 March at 13:48 ·
‪#‎WeBelieveSurvivors‬

Please Read (its long but) Please Share. I’ll be tagging councillors and members of the TCHC board as I believe they have responsibility over this and I need your help.

For the past four months I have been embarrassed to talk about my family’s deep dark secrets. I can no longer keep my thoughts silent because I need to stand by my mother and countless other women who deal with domestic abuse on a daily basis. My mother was assaulted and threatened on November 9th of last year by her husband (my stepfather) and I was stabbed in the process of getting her out of the apartment. On March 17th he was convicted of some of these charges and is behind bars. This is a victory but a very small one because our system is broken and it’s putting women’s lives in danger.

‪#‎TCHC‬ Days after the incident my mother filed the requisite paperwork to get an emergency transfer from her home within TCHC as many friends of my stepfather were threatening and harassing her so she wouldn’t testify. She provided a letter from Victim Services and a letter from the police officer in charge who said he was a danger to my mother and could quite possibly kill her in the future. Over the months they have lost this file, told my mom to go to a shelter countless times, and said she couldn’t leave her apartment to stay with relatives for a week or two without a lawyers note (lawyers are $) as she would break the lease, yet going to a shelter doesn’t break the lease! Recently I’ve spoken with the person in charge over this file at housing connections and they said the only thing holding up this file was that police officers letter wasn’t on official letterhead and that she would call the officer and correct it. She didn’t call the officer and the officer is now on vacation for a month. She also said we could get a lawyer’s letter to explain the situation and that would count for official documentation but when a woman from housing equity called her about the file she couldn’t tell that person what the lawyer should write to get my mother the needed approval for the emergency transfer and she again said my mother should go to a shelter. We even provided a probation and conviction letter and this wasn’t enough. This woman from housing connections is killing my mother and this systemic failure by TCHC housing and similar entities are why so many women don’t report abuse as they are told go to a shelter / tough it out.

‪#‎VictimServices‬ during the trial and conviction of my stepfather my mother was told to go to a shelter and get counselling whenever she felt unsafe or stressed. She wasn’t told who the crown attorney was or how the process of the trial was proceeding only small updates without context and help. I now understand some of the ‪#‎Ghomeshi‬ witnesses in their struggle and completely understand why a defence attorney can pick them apart without help from a trained lawyer. I understand why many sexual assault cases / domestic abuse charges get dropped or settled because without a trained lawyer in your corner you feel helpless. I spent a lot of money to get my mom a lawyer and was able to get the crowns name, getting meetings to happen and overall get the people a victim services to respect my mother and give her the help she needed to prepare for the trial. The trial was settled and when we spoke with victim services who then speaks to the crown in a roundabout way. We were clear that we wanted at least 500m protection order from my step-father as we said we would rather testify and get a solid conviction on four charges than a deal on two charges if that meant less than 500m. At the day of the sentencing the crown and defence attorney agreed on 100m and left me in shock and disbelief. Sometimes lawyers are more worried about losing than doing the right thing. 100m protection order is useless and we will mostly likely have to spend more money on lawyers to get a proper restraining order that actually can give a proper distance where one can feel safe.

‪#‎shelters‬ The government is funding more shelters in the 2016 budget but I believe shelters are the last resort for victims of abuse and why many women stay home with their abuser. When someone is abused they need space, they need to feel safe and the best way to do that is give someone a portable subsidy for rent so they can afford to be on their own / with their family in an environment of their choosing. They need to be in a permanent home where they can rebuild their life not a shelter. We need to take a look at how we help people and we need to make sure we have enough housing to do it.

I’m sick in tired of politicians and their like talk about International Women’s Day and Dec 6th day and talk the talk but don’t take actions. I sick and tired of hypocrites. We don’t need more statements / condemnation that lack funding /

I want action on my mother’s housing file in the next week and if not I will be publicly protesting as many public speaking engagements of the mayor John Tory and other city councillors who have a responsibility on this file. My mother has called the Mayor’s office and every time they send the calls back to housing and she gets lost in a bureaucracy. I will hold them to account politically as much as possible and feel free to message me if you want to help because‪#‎webelivesurvivors‬ but we must ‪#‎standwithsurvivors‬ too!
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Andy Lehrer
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